爱情

你發覺了嗎？

愛的感覺，總是在一開始覺得很甜蜜，

總覺得多一個人陪，多一個人幫你分擔，

你終於不再孤單了，至少有一個人想著你，

戀著你，不論做什麼事情，

只要能一起，就是好的....



... ...




....但是慢慢的，隨著彼此的認識愈深，

你開始發現了對方的缺點，

於是問題一個接著一個發生，

你開始煩，累，甚至想要逃避，

有人說愛情就像在撿石頭，

總想撿到一個適合自己的，

但是你又如何知道什麼時候能夠撿到呢？

他/她適合你，那你又適合他/她嗎？


其實，愛情就像磨石子一樣，

或許剛撿到的時候，你不是那麼的滿意，

但是記住人是有彈性的，

很多事情是可以改變的，

只要你有心，有勇氣，

與其到處去撿未知的石頭，

還不如好好的將自己已經擁有的石頭磨亮，你開始磨了嗎？

很多人以為是因為感情淡了，

所以人才會變得懶惰。

錯！

其實是人先被惰性征服，

所以感情才會變淡的。

在某個聚餐的場合，
　　有人提議多吃點蝦對身體好，
　　這時候有個中年男人忽然說「十年前，當我老婆還是我的女朋友的時候,她說要吃十隻蝦，我就剝二十只給她！
　　現在，如果她要我幫她剝蝦殼，開玩笑！我連幫她脫衣服都沒興趣了，還剝蝦殼咧！」
　　聽到了嗎？明白了嗎？
　　難怪越來越多人只想要談一輩子的戀愛，
　　卻遲遲不肯走入婚姻。
　　因為，婚姻容易讓人變得懶惰。
　　
如果每個人都
　　懶得講話、
　　懶得傾聽、
　　懶得製造驚喜、
　　懶得溫柔體貼，
　　那麼夫妻或是情人之間，
　　又怎麼會不漸行漸遠漸無聲呢？

所以請記住：
　　有活力的愛情，
　　是需要適度殷勤灌溉的，
　　談戀愛，更是不可以偷懶的喔！
　　

有一對情侶，相約下班後去用餐，逛街，

可是女孩因為公司會議而延誤了，

當她冒著雨趕到的時候已經遲到了30多分鐘，

他的男朋友很不高興的說：

你每次都這樣，現在我什麼心情也沒了，

我以後再也不會等你了！

剎那間，女孩終於決堤崩潰了，

她心裡在想：或許，他們再也沒有未來了


同樣的在同一個地點，另一對情侶也面臨同樣的處境;

女孩趕到的時候也遲到了半個鐘頭，

他的男朋友說：“我想你一定忙壞了吧！”

接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水，並且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上，

此刻，女孩流淚了

但是流過她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的。




你體會到了嗎？

其實愛，恨往往只是在我們的一念之間！

愛不僅要懂得寬容更要及時，

很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉變罷了！

懂了嗎？

當有個人愛上你，而你也覺得他不錯。

那並不代表你會選擇他。


我們總說：“我要找一個自己很愛很愛的人，才會談戀愛。”

但是當對方問你，怎樣才算是很愛很愛的時候，

你卻無法回答他，因為你自己也不知道。


沒錯，我們總是以為，我們會找到一個自己很愛很愛的人。

可是後來，當我們猛然回首，我們才會發覺自己曾經多麼天真。

假如從來沒有開始，你怎麼知道自己會不會很愛很愛那個人呢？

其實，很愛很愛的感覺，是要在一起經歷了許多事情之後才會發現的。

或許每個人都希望能夠找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侶，

所以，還是仔細看看身邊的人吧！他或許已經等你很久了


當你愛一個人的時候，愛到八分絕對剛剛好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下兩三分用來愛自己。

如果你還繼續愛得更多，很可能會給對方沉重的壓力，讓彼此喘不過氣來，

完全喪失了愛情的樂趣。


所以請記住，

喝酒不要超過六分醉，

吃飯不要超過七分飽，

愛一個人不要超過八分


如果你也正在為愛迷惘，或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示：


愛一個人，要了解，也要開解;

要道歉，也要道謝;

要認錯，也要改錯;

要體貼，也要體諒;

是接受，而不是忍受;

是寬容，而不是縱容;

是支持，而不是支配;

是慰問，而不是質問;

是傾訴，而不是控訴;

是難忘，而不是遺忘;

是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代;

是為對方默默祈求，

而不是向對方諸多要求;

可以浪漫，但不要浪費;


`*不要隨便牽手，

`*更不要隨便放手

有你在

有你在 牵手就能取暖（这对我来说是真的，从那天能牵你的手就是我变的开此）
有你在 拥抱就能勇敢（我认为只能拥抱自己最爱的人多一秒，已经能让我觉得幸福）
如果时间倒转 有你在（只是我最想跟你说的，我认识你那么久，我说过的，答应过你的
你不喜欢的我会改 （我都没做得到给你。就让我最后一次，做完我答应你的一起）
有你在 平凡就不平凡（自从认识你过后，我学会很多东西。是你让我世界变得不平凡）
有你在 遗憾就能美满（跟你在一起，我们都是有很多不开心的事，你骂我，让我流泪。但对我来讲我很感谢你，是你叫我
（这一切。爱是什么，我终于明白）
如果生命重来 我坦白 （如果给我一个机会从新再来，我会选者在对你好一点，但我知道爱不是你真真要的东西，你要的
是一个美好的未来）
你会懂我的爱 （我真希望你会明白，感受到我对你的爱。）


谢谢你是你让我学会了爱情，深深爱过，也深深伤过。我要对你说，我无法再去爱了，我的心已经回不来了。我会离开，让你有个快乐的开此。我祝福你能找到一个永远的快乐。如果能在遇见，我希望你还记得我。

Love Game

Everyday there are people who turn from stranger to friend then bcome partner, or there also people who turn from partner to friend then completely stranger. The world just spin like that, the cycle of life. Or is it just game created by human?? Or by god himself?? Lies always happen to exist in 2 person, which is right, which is wrong, might no longer be decided by just 1 person to decide. This game also exist in friend, family and stranger, which might make someone feel its fun to play a games of lies. Sometimes even explained but can we still believe in them? I felt this world are too fake to live in, is there a place where lies no longer exist?

This game i no longer able to tolerate or continue anymore, might as well leave this game alone

分手故事

Do you know, this video really resemble to both of u. Even a small matter you can just scold me and get angry. Ya, it's the truth that i really lie a lot to u, maybe you will think that i lying when i said i lie cuz i dun wan to worried about me but that is the truth. Not that i dun want to share with u all about me, just tat i am not very good with word when i facing u. I dunno where to start to tell u everything, I dunno how to say something that can make u feel sweet, I dunno how to do as what that girl said in the video. Every guy is different, and i dun have the talent to be a sweet talker, my trick are limited but there are one thing that other guys might not have, that is the heart to love u, no matter how u scold, me how u hurt me, how many time we break up... I always be the one for u. Love is not something perfect, as it is about 2 different person living and sharing a whole new life together. I admit that i really bad in talking to u, so i just keep silent, Maybe u will say what the girl said, that i dun have any self decision cuz i just do what u want. Or maybe when we sms or chat on phone u dun feel as happy as when u talking to another guy cuz i not good in talking as i said. If u will saw this, i hope that u were living good enuf. Or else give me a call. cuz i always be waiting

Once Before

once before i am just a playboy, fooling around in club, flirting with girl and just drink and smoke. But u change my world. Once before i give up myself, stop to work, stay at home, fear to face the world, and just be a guy that ask money from my family. But u scolded me, waked me up from my slumber. Once before, we both walking in parallel line but who have thought that we really cross over and walked on the same line.

I dunno how to said it, but the time i have with u is the time where my world changed. We smile, we laugh, we mad and we argue, Love is really strange. The more u care the more u obsessed by the another. Maybe i really reach to a level where i can't leave this line. To learn to live without u, To learn to accept someone new, to learn to live by myself, and To learn to accept the fact that u are no longer mine.

Now i get it, why my friend said that love is not valuable. Cuz love is just a split second event, 1 year relationship might just end in 1 minute. No matter how long a relationship are, there always a breaking event happen. She said what most important is "if there were one time u learn to love someone with all ur heart, that is the best moment u ever give them". Funny tho my friend that been single for 6 years tell me so. Well sometimes a relationship will make u grow but sometimes it will make u stop growing as everyone are moving forward, well it just like a river that couldn't flow in winter. U can see the surface all freeze but the water below that ice are still flowing. As for me now, i dunno why i only wish for your return, I wish i could just let u go, but i know that if this line that we are walking together split up, then forever we will walk in our parallel line. U might scold me if u saw this, but what i really wanted is to be with u, till the day my last breath end. I remember i wrote a blog over here for my other ex also saying how much i love her, but when i read back everything,and i found out that i only remember what i had been together with my 1st ex. I guess the other 2 is not that i love them deep but cuz maybe i just need someone, but everything single event i had been together with u, is still very fresh in my mind. Just like it was yesterday.

I went to club tonight but i left pretty early. I just don't have the mood to club cuz what's in my mind is only u. I grab a few drink and went back home, hoping i can sleep nice and sound. And now it was 6am, wake up cuz the same dream where i saw u leaving my life. Left me all alone at my world. I can seriously tell u that every night i really get the same dream, repeat and repeat again and i really scare to sleep. Previously i really like to sleep very much but now sleeping is a torture to me. Sleep few hours then wake up, sleep another few hours then wake up again. Baby, i wish u just kill me if can. Better than i been kill softly.

Do u know that u been ignoring me recently? I trying my best to get back to u but in the end u just keep on pushing me away. If u can just tell me that u dun love me anymore and ur heart already at him there. Then i will leave u alone, forever and ever. But i also dunno i can do it or not. Most likely i can't

I really want to tell u that i will wish for your happiness but i just can't say the words. I am not that strong to said those. Well if u really choose another, i can only say,"sorry, for not being the perfect one for u". I don't really want to say all this, I just can't say all this in front of u. If u read this, pls give me a msg and thanks me. Well it quite impossible cuz maybe u won't found out but this blog also. And also Love is not a comparison between one another but is the heart to keep the one as a love one. U asked me, "if this world really got time machine, what time i will choose to go back to", and here is my real answer, if i can, i will choose to go to the future, and show u that i can wait u forever. But this is something that won't happen. Well for now i only wish that I am the only one who will suffer all these pain for both of us. I wanted to get all ur sadness and transfer to me, so that i will know that u always smile. Cuz ur smile is the only thing's that i wish to see.

I don't have the courage to say all this to u, Just hope that one day u will saw this blog. I love u

From
Strom Lau

To my beloved
Jessica Sow

U will always be the best thing that ever happen in my life. <3

你是我人生发生过的最好的事情

休息是为了走更长的路
你就是我的旅途
都是因为你 我一直漫步

想要跟你一起走到最后
但我遗失了地图
谁给谁束缚 谁比谁辛苦
爱到深处才会领悟

好的事情 最后虽然结束
感动十分 就有十分满足
谢谢你 是你陪我走过那些路
痛 是以后无法再给你幸福
好的事情 也许能够重复
感动时分 就算纷纷模糊
不要哭 至少你和我记得很清楚
爱 是为彼此祝福

Lie~~

Leaving thing alone in the world, ignoring thing, coming back and then going away again. Word from mouth might be nice to hear... but action shows that it dun give a damn. Last day of 2011 and it all left behind... every fucking things. Words, promises and also a lie that hard to over come. Giving that damn expression and yet at behind just fucking pissing thing of. Should have enuough of the game earlier than being fool around for so long. Should have realize that things are not true in front of the eyes.